I Like to Watch Gay Men Have Sex

Watching Gay Men Having Sex

I have discovered something new and interesting about myself and at 33 I am pleased that I am continuing to change and grow as a mature adult.

No, this is not deep or life changing, but it was surprising. I have discovered that I like to watch two men having sex.

I say two because I’m not into the group thing, not even when men and women are involved.

I always thought that two men having sex was disgusting before I became educated on human sexuality in part with my work in HIV education.

So, I suppose I just assumed it would be gross to actually see two men make love (fuck) or maybe I was just under the impression that watching two men have sex was pointless for a woman who considers herself straight.

Also, with all the down-low hysteria these days why would I want to see two men in bed?

Why Not?

Any who, I was at one of my favorite online porn sites where you can see tons of porn videos for free. I stumbled onto a video of a man giving another man head and I was intrigued and turned on all at once!

I also discovered that I perform oral sex like a man! I think that’s what really tripped me out. Some of you may be thinking that the men perform like women, but no, that’s not always the case.

It’s not like men have sex like “bitches” or anything. Some of the men on men porn is very passionate and loving. It’s not all that different from straight sex. 

The More You Know

I also believe that my new position at Wellness AIDS Services is opening my mind to things that I once never had an interest in. Don’t misunderstand me, I am not homophobic and never have been, but I have always thought gay men having sex was a very non sexy act.

I prefer my men be straight but I could be open to dating a bisexual man. I probably have already dated or had sex with a bisexual or down-low man and didn’t know it. It’s not like we know the full extent of a persons sexuality at the moment of attraction.

My point is, you can never say what you won’t do or won’t like until you try it or you gain further knowledge about a thing.

I have uttered those words “I would never” about certain things and it has bitten me in the ass more than once.

So, fellas if we meet and take a liking to each other and I ask if you like men please tell the truth if you do.