Ask A Black Girl: Why are Black girls so snotty towards White women?

WHY ARE BLACK GIRLS SO SNOTTY TOWARDS WHITE WOMEN? A woman named Melissa, who I assume is White, wrote me with the following question: Hi, it seems to me for the most part black girls don’t like making conversation or being friendly with white girls. Why is that? MY RESPONSE: Thanks for your question. If Read More …

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A Black Woman Dealing with White Peoples Privilege and Fragility Online

White fragility is a defensive response to real conversations about race. via GIPHY White privilege has layers. To understand what it is and what it isn’t read Understanding White Privilege and White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack. So, my Adventures in White Privilege and Fragility started this particular week when my Facebook “friend”, C. Hope Read More …

May is Masturbation Month: Celebrate With These “Super-Hot” Books!

DID YOU KNOW THAT MAY IS MASTURBATION MONTH? Me either! But thanks to Kinkly.com, a website that prides itself on featuring straight up sex talk with a twist has included my first book, Keep Your Panties Up and Your Skirt Down, on its list of 13 Super-Hot New Erotic Books All for Your Masturbation Month Read More …

Ask A Black Girl: Is it normal for White men to be super attracted to Black women?

I’m a White man attracted to Black women. Help! Q: Out of all ethnic ties, Black women turn me on the most. I don’t know why. I told my peers and they gave somewhat disgusting looks and replies. I like Black women because of their beauty: physical features like bigger lips, hips, buttocks and legs. Read More …

Ask A Black Girl: Why aren’t more Black women killing themselves?

WHY ARE BLACK WOMEN’S SUICIDE RATES SO LOW? Yes, this is a real question I found in an online discussion. I swear, it’s like people want us to die or they are curious as to why we want to or must go on in a world that hates us. But, why ask why we want Read More …

Ask A Black Girl: Why do Black women hate their natural hair?

Q: Why do Black women act as though having a relaxer and getting a weave is better than the natural hair our creator gave to us? – Tiara Ella Yo: For me personally, I love my natural hair, but I cannot deny that styling it is often a challenge. It’s very time consuming, shrinkage is Read More …

Ask A Black Girl: Why Don’t Black Women Workout?

Ask A Black Girl: WHY DON’T BLACK WOMEN WORKOUT? Sacha Inchi: We’re too busy taking care of everybody and everything to eke out time/space for self-care. Angela Smith: It may be that its not seen within the family, so it’s not thought of to do. We are creatures of example. NEWSFLASH: BLACK WOMEN DO WORKOUT! Read More …

I AM African-American (and so are you)

I AM African-American (and so are you) YOU = Black people living in America. Assimilation the process of adapting or adjusting to the culture of a group or nation, or the state of being so adapted: assimilation of immigrants into American life. Sociology. the merging of cultural traits from previously distinct cultural groups, not involving Read More …