Ask Dangerous Lee – Why is it that nice boys don’t do it for me!?

Q: I’m a newly single girl and have been dating. Currently I am seeing one guy I will call my “Nice Boy” and the other is my “Gangsta Boy”. Nice Boy is very nice, has his shit together and all that. Gangsta Boy is gangsta! He doesn’t have shit going for him and can be rude as fuck! So why Read More …

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Ask Dangerous Lee – Can you believe a cheater when they say they want to be loyal?

Q: If you have a relationship and your mate has had a history of cheating on whomever they were with, can you believe them when they say they want to be loyal to you? I know this sounds like a dumb question. But sometimes we get in those situations. Hope, Los Angeles, California A: It doesn’t just sound like a Read More …

“Ask Dangerous Lee” – How do you get rid of a clingy friend?

Q: How do you get rid of a “friend” that has been by face and actions officially labeled as a cling-on? Mizz Sandy, Chicago, IL A: Well, hell, what is he/she clinging onto? Your money? Your ass? Your man? What? Unless I know what he or she is clinging onto I cannot offer my opinion. If he or she is Read More …

“Ask Dangerous Lee”: Should a person marry someone that is in debt?

Q: Should a person marry someone that is in debt, thinking that love conquers all? Mia Chicago, IL A: I forget the singer, but the song goes – “Ain’t nothing goin’ on but the rent. Ya got to have a J-O-B if you want to be with me.” So, if you or anyone else thinks broke brothas are cute, by Read More …

Ask Dangerous Lee: Why are women suddenly falling into this realm of “Male Identity”?

Q: Why is it that women are suddenly falling into this realm of “Male Identity”? I appreciate the “aggressive” and “butch” personas, but why do so many 35+ women need to identify with their so-called “male” side? Help a sista understand! The Lesbian Goddess, NY, NY A: Ah, this is an interesting question to be asked by The Lesbian Goddess. Read More …