Ask Dangerous Lee – How do you know when you’re an adult?

Q: How do you know when you’re an adult? tt!, Flint, MI A: When your 18th birthday arrives you’re an adult, legally. If you’re 18 or for that matter 35 and cannot handle your own damn business and you’d rather run the streets getting high, not working, and can’t commit to anything then you’re not an adult. Comprende? Got questions? Read More …

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Ask Dangerous Lee – How can I tell if someone is really my “sister” ?

Q: I consider myself a “woman’s woman”. I have five sisters and never felt threatened. I have to ask though, how can I tell if someone is really my “sister” or just someone paying lip service to loyalty. I have a “friend” who seems to find my male friends, “interesting’, “hot”, and sooo attractive”. Now these guys are just friends, Read More …

Ask Dangerous Lee – When you complain at a restaurant, why do they offer a complimentary meal?

Q: Why is it that when you complain about the food at a restaurant they give you a certificate for a complimentary meal? Dawn C. Whereabouts Unknown A: Of course it’s so they can make it up to you the next time around, but it may also be a second chance to perfect their “special sauce”. Got Questions?  

Ask Dangerous Lee – Do you think they put crack in Krispy Kreme donuts?

Q: Do you think they put crack in Krispy Kreme donuts? If not, why does a sista ache for them at 3 am? Mizz Sandy Chicago, IL A: No, they don’t put crack in Krispy Kreme donuts. You smoke crack or weed and crave Krispy Kreme donuts! You should be ashamed of yourself blaming Krispy Kreme for your drug habit. Read More …

Ask Dangerous Lee – Why is it that nice boys don’t do it for me!?

Q: I’m a newly single girl and have been dating. Currently I am seeing one guy I will call my “Nice Boy” and the other is my “Gangsta Boy”. Nice Boy is very nice, has his shit together and all that. Gangsta Boy is gangsta! He doesn’t have shit going for him and can be rude as fuck! So why Read More …

Ask Dangerous Lee – Can you believe a cheater when they say they want to be loyal?

Q: If you have a relationship and your mate has had a history of cheating on whomever they were with, can you believe them when they say they want to be loyal to you? I know this sounds like a dumb question. But sometimes we get in those situations. Hope, Los Angeles, California A: It doesn’t just sound like a Read More …

Dangerous Lee Article Appears in Local Juneteenth Publication

How to Keep it Dangerous! So many of us wonder how we can help the less fortunate or do good in this world as we struggle in our everyday lives. I present to you a list of things you should do and things you should not do. Of course the NOT list is my opinion, but you definitely want to Read More …

“Ask Dangerous Lee” – How do you get rid of a clingy friend?

Q: How do you get rid of a “friend” that has been by face and actions officially labeled as a cling-on? Mizz Sandy, Chicago, IL A: Well, hell, what is he/she clinging onto? Your money? Your ass? Your man? What? Unless I know what he or she is clinging onto I cannot offer my opinion. If he or she is Read More …

“Ask Dangerous Lee”: Should a person marry someone that is in debt?

Q: Should a person marry someone that is in debt, thinking that love conquers all? Mia Chicago, IL A: I forget the singer, but the song goes – “Ain’t nothing goin’ on but the rent. Ya got to have a J-O-B if you want to be with me.” So, if you or anyone else thinks broke brothas are cute, by Read More …

Ask Dangerous Lee: Why are women suddenly falling into this realm of “Male Identity”?

Q: Why is it that women are suddenly falling into this realm of “Male Identity”? I appreciate the “aggressive” and “butch” personas, but why do so many 35+ women need to identify with their so-called “male” side? Help a sista understand! The Lesbian Goddess, NY, NY A: Ah, this is an interesting question to be asked by The Lesbian Goddess. Read More …