Ask Dangerous Lee – During Christmas I feel alone and depressed. What is my problem? Posted on December 21, 2011December 11, 2024 By Dangerous Lee Q: I’m not normally an unhappy person, but each year during Christmas I feel really alone and depressed. What is my problem? Tasha Flint, MI A: You may be suffering from the “Winter Blues”. If so, I feel for you because I also get a lil’ depressed and very unmotivated during the cold seasons. “They” say there is special lighting for folks like us to use that will give us the feeling of sunlight, but I’m no dummy. If it’s not real sunlight I don’t want it. Besides, I know that it’s cold, wet, and grey outside. I guess our problem is that we live in Michigan and not Florida. We both should consult a physician on this one. On the other hand, the media at large puts a lot of pressure on us to be joyous and uplifting during this time of year by selling us the perfect family holiday scene in almost every Christmas film that has ever been made. Don’t let this lie fool you; no one has a family like that and if they do it’s not always peachy. I’m not sure what you believe in spiritually or otherwise, but rely on your own brand of faith to get through it. And remember, we only have a few more months of Winter to go! Got a question for Dangerous Lee? Like this:Like Loading... Related Ask Dangerous Lee advicechristmascolumnHolidayshumormichiganopinionsseasonal depression
Ask Dangerous Lee Ask Dangerous Lee:What do you think about Chris Brown and Rihanna? Posted on February 24, 2012March 14, 2018 Q: What do you think about the Chris Brown and Rihanna musical collaborations? Shana T. Detroit, MI A: I have not heard either track and I really don’t care to listen, but I think that those two have made amends and appearing on each others track is a way to… Like this:Like Loading... Read More
Ask Dangerous Lee Ask Dangerous Lee: Should a person marry someone that is in debt? Posted on June 10, 2008January 2, 2021 Q: Should a person marry someone that is in debt, thinking that love conquers all? Mia Chicago, IL A: I forget the singer, but the song goes – “Ain’t nothing goin’ on but the rent. Ya got to have a J-O-B if you want to be with me.” So, if… Like this:Like Loading... Read More
Ask Dangerous Lee Ask Dangerous Lee – How can I tell if someone is really my “sister” ? Posted on July 28, 2008January 2, 2021 Q: I consider myself a “woman’s woman”. I have five sisters and never felt threatened. I have to ask though, how can I tell if someone is really my “sister” or just someone paying lip service to loyalty. I have a “friend” who seems to find my male friends, “interesting’,… Like this:Like Loading... Read More