Ask Dangerous Lee – During Christmas I feel alone and depressed. What is my problem? Posted on December 21, 2011December 23, 2019 By Dangerous Lee Q: I’m not normally an unhappy person, but each year during Christmas I feel really alone and depressed. What is my problem? Tasha Flint, MI A: You may be suffering from the “Winter Blues”. If so, I feel for you because I also get a lil’ depressed and very unmotivated during the cold seasons. “They” say there is special lighting for folks like us to use that will give us the feeling of sunlight, but I’m no dummy. If it’s not real sunlight I don’t want it. Besides, I know that it’s cold, wet, and grey outside. I guess our problem is that we live in Michigan and not Florida. We both should consult a physician on this one. On the other hand, the media at large puts a lot of pressure on us to be joyous and uplifting during this time of year by selling us the perfect family holiday scene in almost every Christmas film that has ever been made. Don’t let this lie fool you; no one has a family like that and if they do it’s not always peachy. I’m not sure what you believe in spiritually or otherwise, but rely on your own brand of faith to get through it. And remember, we only have a few more months of Winter to go! Got a question for Dangerous Lee? Like this:Like Loading... Related Ask Dangerous Lee advicechristmascolumnHolidayshumormichiganopinionsseasonal depression
Ask Dangerous Lee Ask Dangerous Lee: Do you believe that Blue Ivy is Beyonce and Jay-Z’s biological child? Posted on April 5, 2012October 27, 2021 Q: Do you believe that Blue Ivy is Beyonce and Jay-Z’s biological child? Erica S. Brooklyn, NY A: My short answer is YES, of course! My long opinion is this: Anyone who believes that Beyonce had a surrogate to carry her child and that Blue Ivy is not Beyonce and… Like this:Like Loading... Read More
Ask Dangerous Lee Ask Dangerous Lee: Why are women suddenly falling into this realm of “Male Identity”? Posted on June 3, 2008March 2, 2018 Q: Why is it that women are suddenly falling into this realm of “Male Identity”? I appreciate the “aggressive” and “butch” personas, but why do so many 35+ women need to identify with their so-called “male” side? Help a sista understand! The Lesbian Goddess, NY, NY A: Ah, this is… Like this:Like Loading... Read More
Ask Dangerous Lee Ask Dangerous Lee – What is considered being BLACK enough? Posted on July 14, 2008July 10, 2018 What do we as BLACK people consider being BLACK enough?! Q: I am a Black male with black parents (high yellow) but I was indirectly raised with subtle traces of Japanese culture. Oddly enough, I wear expensive blazers with casual jeans and sneakers. I prefer super hero movies or anime… Like this:Like Loading... Read More