Dangerous Lee: Alan, what is the title of your next audiobook and when is it scheduled to be released?
Alan Roger Currie: The title of my third audiobook is Oooooh . . . Say it Again: Mastering the Fine Art of Verbal Seduction and Aural Sex. It is scheduled to be released on Amazon.com and Audible.com sometime between Monday, February 16, 2015 and Friday, February 20, 2015.
Dangerous Lee: I did a Q & A with you back in 2012 about the paperback version of this same book, right?
Alan Roger Currie: Yes, you sure did Dangerous! And I thank you for that. Actually, the paperback version of Oooooh . . . Say it Again was my best-selling paperback title between January 1, 2012 and December 31, 2014.
My other title, Mode One: Let the Women Know What You’re REALLY Thinking is my best-selling eBook as well as my best-selling audiobook at the moment.
Dangerous Lee: Not looking for credit per se, but didn’t I help motivate you to write that book?
Alan Roger Currie: (laughs) Yes, you actually did Dangerous, although I later changed the content.
You, along with a handful of other women I know, had suggested to me way back in 2009 or 2010 that I should write a book that chronicled a lot of my hot, kinky phone sex experiences with women.
But instead of focusing solely and specifically on my past phone sex experiences with women, I ended up writing a book that was about the whole concept of helping men develop strong ‘verbal game’ and verbal seduction skills with women.
Dangerous Lee: How many women would you estimate that you have had phone sex with?
Alan Roger Currie: Since 1992, which was probably the first calendar year that I really got into having phone sex with women, up until now I would estimate that I have had phone sex with about 1,700 women.
What is even more interesting, is that a significant percentage of those women have actually paid me money for regular and semi-regular episodes of phone sex.
For a period of time, I actually operated as somewhat of a “Phone Sex Gigolo” for women. Having women pay me for phone sex was almost like a part-time job for me between roughly 2003 and 2009.
Dangerous Lee: Why do you love phone sex so much? Do you love phone sex more than actual physical intimacy? Or do you love both erotic activities equally?
Alan Roger Currie: I have had phone sex with far more women than I have had physical sex with, but I love actual intercourse and oral sex with women more.
I started gravitating toward phone sex around the time when NBA basketball legend Earvin ‘Magic’ Johnson announced that he had tested positive for the HIV virus.
After Johnson’s announcement, I became very reluctant to indulge in a high amount of unprotected casual intercourse with women. I hate condoms. Absolutely hate them. But I was mature enough to realize that I have to wear them if I am going to engage in short-term non-monogamous intercourse with multiple partners.
Dangerous Lee: When did you first earn the nickname, ‘The King of Verbal Seduction?’
Alan Roger Currie: I’ve been given so many nicknames by women over the years, it’s not even funny.
Dangerous, even you once referred to me as ‘The King of Seducing Women into Phone Sex.’ A former lover of mine and two of her girlfriends started calling me ‘The King of Verbal Seduction’ back in the 1990s when I was living in Los Angeles.
They were impressed with my ability to seduce women into having sex with me the same day I met them as well as my ability to overcome many women’s negative reactions and harsh criticisms to my bold, straightforward, erotically explicit approach and end up having sex with those same women who had initially behaved as if I was turning them off and had insulted them and offended them.
In my audiobook, I refer to women of that nature as “Wholesome Pretenders.” These women will initially have a very adverse and prudish reaction to a man who is attempting to persuade them into engaging in short-term and/or non-monogamous ‘casual’ sex, but eventually, they will give in to that man’s sexual desires and requests.
Dangerous Lee: Why do you think so many women in society behave like ‘Wholesome Pretenders?’
Alan Roger Currie: Because organized religion and other factions in society have led most women to believe that the only way they will be able to attract a husband or a long-term boyfriend is if they present themselves to men as ‘prudish, monogamy-minded good girls.’ So consequently, many women become sexually duplicitous in their behavior.
Dangerous Lee: Any advice for freelance writers and self-employed authors?
Alan Roger Currie: Always keep writing. Write, write, re-write, and write some more. I have now been a self-employed, self-sufficient author, public speaker, and professional dating coach for roughly 25 months now. Write about what you’re truly passionate about. Don’t wait for opportunities. Create them for yourself.