Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: Loving Your Body

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As a culture, we are encouraged to have only a distant relationship to our bodies, and sometimes to have an actively adversarial relationship with them. We are taught to relate to the world around us primarily through our rational brains, … Continue reading

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Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: Why tell the truth?

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“It’s not worth it to tell the truth,” is something I hear people say quite often. Well, that depends whether you are really measuring what you’re losing by lying, and whether you really care about what you’re losing. You may … Continue reading

Study Says: An Active Sex Life Can Help You Make More Money

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The Institute for the Study of Labor in Germany has released a report according to which, people who indulge in sex at least four times in a week, make more money. It further adds that sexually active people out earn … Continue reading

Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: Moving Beyond Fear And Anxiety

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Unless you are one of those lucky people who just happens to be with someone who wants to have sex exactly the way you do, the art of negotiation is an essential skill. By that I mean that you need … Continue reading

Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: Understanding Rape

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In my last post, I wrote about abuse; before I move on to more pleasant subjects, I want to say something about rape. Citing my own experience may help people understand what motivates a person to rape another human being, … Continue reading

365 Days of Dangermas: Sex, Love & Laughter – I Shot The Pilot!

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June 1, 2013: I filmed the pilot episode of Sex, Love & Laughter today and I am very glad it’s over! I am very critical of myself, so being on camera is a challenge. I also hate learning dialogue and … Continue reading

Top Story: 4 Habits That Can Keep You From Getting Sex At Bedtime

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Years into a long-term relationship, most couples have an unfortunate lack of mind-blowing sex. The truth is that sex can become somewhat stale after two people make love with each other many times over several years, often resulting in low … Continue reading

Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: Are You Bored With Vanilla Sex?

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There are a million different ways to expand your sexual repertoire, incorporating various kinds of toys, props, or games into your play. BDSM (which stands for bondage, discipline, and sadomasochism) or D&S (dominance and submission) are terms that describe a … Continue reading

The Racy Files: Mr. Locario

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Name: Mr. Locario Explain what makes you racy: I’m a dating and life coach who likes to really keep it real and help people get what they desire. I know a lot of guys are really out here looking for … Continue reading

Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: The Power of the Orgasm

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When a powerful orgasm surges through our bodies, it reaches into all those dark corners where we may be hiding difficult emotions. As we grow up we are taught that part of being adult is controlling our show of feelings, … Continue reading

Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: The Female Orgasm

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Recently I was asked for a list of things that are not generally known about women’s sexual responses and desires. Since women vary enormously, this is a little hard to do–and perhaps that is the most important thing that most … Continue reading