These days there is a lot of talk about self-love, and many people will tell you that you must first love yourself before you can love anyone else. While that is true, I think it needs some explaining. What does … Continue reading
There are many ways to express love, and different people experience love in different ways. One of the keys to compatibility with your partner is when you both express and receive love in the same ways, so it’s easy and … Continue reading
Let’s talk about love. I have said before and will say again that it is not love but compatibility and companionship that make a relationship work. You might love someone and yet need to stay well away from that person … Continue reading
I’ve touched on this subject before, but it’s so central in understanding how to have healthy relationships that it needs some in-depth examination. There are not very many people in this world who have not felt jealous at some point … Continue reading
In my last post, I described the various stages of desire, and suggested that we might utilize the experience of desire to manifest things in our physical world. We all are capable of manifesting what we need and want, otherwise … Continue reading
Sex is an unparalleled opportunity to learn how to work with energy flows and develop awareness of the existence of states of reality that are beyond the physical. Although it starts with the body and appears to arise in the … Continue reading
Realizing that you are attracted to the same sex can occur gradually or very suddenly; it can happen when you are seventy or when you are three. It can change and fluctuate or remain constant. Thinking you are gay and … Continue reading
Sensuality is a vital aspect of most sexual play, and when you have someone restrained you can really go to town, using anything from feathers to whips, and using them on all parts of the body in all kinds of … Continue reading
There are a million different ways to expand your sexual repertoire, incorporating various kinds of toys, props, or games into your play. BDSM (which stands for bondage, discipline, and sadomasochism) or D&S (dominance and submission) are terms that describe a … Continue reading
When you just aren’t enjoying sex, what can you do about it? The answer to that is multifaceted since people vary enormously, but for now I’ll pin it down to three different situations: 1. If you have had good sex … Continue reading
Ladies, after the centuries of oppression, sexual discrimination and persecution, we have finally got to a time in history where we feel like we have more equal footing, can achieve more than we ever have been able to before … Continue reading
