Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: Dealing with Anger

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I apologize for the long delay in posting – life has just been incredibly full and busy! OK, following on from my last post, I’m still on the subject of communication and anger. Although it’s true that someone who is … Continue reading

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Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: Moving Beyond Fear And Anxiety

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Unless you are one of those lucky people who just happens to be with someone who wants to have sex exactly the way you do, the art of negotiation is an essential skill. By that I mean that you need … Continue reading

Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: Finding and Expressing Love

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There are many ways to express love, and different people experience love in different ways. One of the keys to compatibility with your partner is when you both express and receive love in the same ways, so it’s easy and … Continue reading

Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: Dealing with Jealousy – Again!

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I’ve touched on this subject before, but it’s so central in understanding how to have healthy relationships that it needs some in-depth examination. There are not very many people in this world who have not felt jealous at some point … Continue reading

Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: The Value of Feeling Desire

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In my last post, I described the various stages of desire, and suggested that we might utilize the experience of desire to manifest things in our physical world. We all are capable of manifesting what we need and want, otherwise … Continue reading

Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: Sex and the Vastness of Being

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Sex is an unparalleled opportunity to learn how to work with energy flows and develop awareness of the existence of states of reality that are beyond the physical. Although it starts with the body and appears to arise in the … Continue reading

Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: Becoming Gay

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Realizing that you are attracted to the same sex can occur gradually or very suddenly; it can happen when you are seventy or when you are three. It can change and fluctuate or remain constant. Thinking you are gay and … Continue reading

Top Story – Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: Taking Charge

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Sensuality is a vital aspect of most sexual play, and when you have someone restrained you can really go to town, using anything from feathers to whips, and using them on all parts of the body in all kinds of … Continue reading

Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: Are You Bored With Vanilla Sex?

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There are a million different ways to expand your sexual repertoire, incorporating various kinds of toys, props, or games into your play. BDSM (which stands for bondage, discipline, and sadomasochism) or D&S (dominance and submission) are terms that describe a … Continue reading

Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: When Sex Isn’t Working

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When you just aren’t enjoying sex, what can you do about it? The answer to that is multifaceted since people vary enormously, but for now I’ll pin it down to three different situations: 1. If you have had good sex … Continue reading