I recently ran into a colleague who had a question for me to answer: What are some good sex positions or sex position aides for people who are larger and/or older? Especially for someone with a bit of a belly? This came on the heels of a question that I received during a sex Q&A […]Read more "Sex Positions for Larger or Older People"
Do you remember when you first met? His hands sputtering between nerves and the subconscious sign-language of infatuation, as your eyes search his for subtle signs of interest. You rolled the right words around in your mouth before asking him to dance, admiring his courage or latent skill as you moved around the floor, weaving […]Read more "Are You A Firestarter? Rekindle Your Relationship!"
In my last post, I wrote about the process I went through to get to a place of opening up to women on a sexual level. Some lesbians know from a young age that they are only interested in women, but they are in the minority. It certainly didn’t happen that way for me. […]Read more "Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: More On Becoming Gay"
When you just aren’t enjoying sex, what can you do about it? The answer to that is multifaceted since people vary enormously, but for now I’ll pin it down to three different situations: 1. If you have had good sex in the past, and you just aren’t getting turned on right now, you might want […]Read more "Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: When Sex Isn’t Working"
I was recently asked if I think it’s OK for girls to be promiscuous. The question that immediately jumped to my mind was why are you asking about girls and not about boys? The answer of course is that is OK for boys to be promiscuous – boys are encouraged to be sexually active, and […]Read more "Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: The Concept of Promiscuity"
I recently heard about someone who had orgasms when she was doing sit-ups. Presumably she uses her PC muscles when she is doing sit-ups, and the PC muscle in turn stimulates the tissues of the clitoris, since it’s all in the same area. She would also have to be willing to allow the sensation of […]Read more "Sex and Relationships With Mikaya Heart: Exercise, Sports, and Sex"
In my last blog, I mentioned some basics around feelings, what they are, and how they affect us. I’m very fond of saying that the rational brain is limited in its value, and when it comes to feelings, that is particularly true, because feelings have nothing to do with the rational brain. The place where […]Read more "Sex and Relationships with Mikaya Heart: Feelings"