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Q: How do you tell someone that you have an STD?
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A: First, if you have an STD please seek medical help. Some STDs are curable and others are treatable. If you’re walking around with a curable STD, something is definitely wrong with you and you don’t deserve to have sex.
Telling a partner that you have an sexually transmitted disease is not an easy thing to do, but before you participate in any type of sexual act you MUST tell the person or people you plan to be intimate with. If you don’t inform your partner(s) and you infect them you could spend some time in jail. The law on this varies from place to place. However, regardless of possible jail time it is your responsibility as a decent human being to inform your possible sex partners about your STD status.
How to do it is to pick the right place and time. Don’t blurt it out during a first date unless the topic of sex comes up in conversation. I think it would be better to discuss any topics about sex in private face to face conversation. You stand a large chance of not becoming intimate with the person because of your STD status, but at least you are honest and your karma is in place.
It’s also a good idea to educate yourself on the STD that you’re infected with because your partner may have questions, such as, “If we have protected sex is there a high risk that I will be infected?”. Don’t you want to know the answer?
Finally, while you’re being honest, be sure to ask your partner if they have or have ever had a sexually transmitted disease. Asking first and getting their reaction may also be a great way to break the ice about your own STD status.
Self-improvement books have been popular for decades. However, one type of self-help book has increased in sales over the last few years. More and more people are purchasing self-help books to improve their love life. Here are the top 5 books to improve your love life.
The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts
This book in Dr. Gary Chapman’s The Five Love Languages series concentrates on making a couple’s love life stronger over time. Dr. Chapman explains that everyone speaks some of all five love languages, many people have a primary love language. This books even provides love language profile that can be filled out by both men and women to find which love language is their primary one. Dr. Chapman’s vast experience in love and relationships makes this one of the top 5 books to improve your love life, especially over the long-term.
Love By The Numbers
How to Find Great Love, Reignite the Love You Have Through the Power of Numerology must be on the list of top 5 books to improve your love life. Women have warmed up to the way McCants speaks about how you can reignite that love you had with your mate. The book concentrates this self-help book on how to find a partners vibrations to make sure they are compatible with theirs. The author explains that it is possible to know your partners numbers and what type of energy they create to improve your love life.
Love for No Reason
Love for No Reason: 7 Steps to Creating a Life of Unconditional Love by Marci Shimoff found Shimoff partnering with Carol Kline, another popular self-help author, to write this love life improvement book. The two authors interview each other on how people can reach the point of giving unconditional love. Shimoff interviewed more than 150 love experts and luminaries to compile this book. According to both authors, people must learn how to love from the inside out. The book list the seven steps one must take to achieve loving from the inside out and maintaining that unconditional love everyone desires, which in turn allows a couple to improve their love life.
Loving Sex: The Book of Joy and Passion
This latest love life improvement book by renowned sex expert Dr. Laura Berman quickly made it to New York’s bestselling list within a matter of weeks after publication. The book describes Dr. Berman describes the complications many couples have with their sex life because of the time restriction each person is confronted with each day. She also goes into the couples that are intimacy shy and cannot be more open to a gratifying sexual relationship with their partner. Dr. Berman goes into how couples can overcome the barriers that prevent an improved love life.
No top 5 list of books about improving ones love life would be complete without Dr. Kevin Levan’s bestselling book, Sheet Music: Uncovering the Secrets of Sexual Intimacy in Marriage. Dr. Levan pulls back the sheets on the marriage bed to frankly explain how couples can improve their love life. Everything from people with little or no sexual experience to people with vast amounts of experience are covered in Dr. Levan’s book.
*Article provided by Jane, psychic from England and tarot reading expert.