Dating and Relationship Expert, Lucia.
Dangerous Lee: What does it mean when an ex who you haven’t spoken to in 10 years, who you were once in love with, who is now living in another state, contacts you under the guise of being concerned for you because your favorite celebrity died? Some important factors are that he found your number (work number) by researching you on the internet, he doesn’t admit to any feelings, and says that he contacted you because he heard that you were looking for him (you were looking years ago). What’s up with this guy?
Lucia: When a former lover makes contact out of the blue, no matter what “excuse” they may use, there are usually two main reasons. Either they want to see how your life is today, to make sure they didn’t miss out on anything by not being with you, or they want to re-connect either for sex or to try dating again. Of course they’re not going to admit to any feelings – if there are any – they don’t want to come across as “sappy”. His actions will let you know what his intentions are. If he stays in contact and wants to see you, he may be trying to re-kindle the relationship. If he doesn’t, then he just wanted to see what you were up to. Only time will tell, so just sit back and wait! The truth will eventually come out.
Lucia is a dating/relationship expert, author of “Lucia’s Lessons of Love”, host of “The Art of Love” on L.A. Talk Radio, a syndicated columnist and keynote speaker. She has over 100 major national and international TV and radio credits including Dr. Phil, The Tyra Banks Show, E! Entertainment, 60 Minutes Australia, The CBS Early Show, ABC 7 News, Good Day L.A and the KTLA News. Lucia has been interviewed by numerous publications including Details, Business Week, Allure, Elle and media from France, Germany, Japan, the UK, Australia and Chile.
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