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To the people who don’t find black women/men attractive, why? – GirlsAskGuys.com

Question: To the people who don’t find black women/men attractive, why?

Black people seem to be the least liked by a lot of people on GAG, and I really don’t understand why..

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The responses to this “popular question” on Girls Ask Guys really tripped me out!

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Why It Makes Perfect Sense To Want A Man With Money

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I’m broke. Poor to be exact. I make less than $10,000 a year. A lot less actually. And, I have bad credit. Why would I want a man that is doing just as bad as I am or slightly better with no current plans or hopes of things looking up?

Money is not the most important quality in a man. In fact it’s not even a quality (is it?), but you know what I mean.

For instance, there is a man, an old and good friend of mine, who was interested in seriously dating me but he does not have his own home or apartment, has a mediocre job, he pays child support for one child and he cannot afford to save a damn dime.

And, that’s just what I know to be true about his financial status. I’m sure it’s worse.

Let’s forget that I am not into him at all romantically for a sec, but what if I was? As a woman in her late 30’s with a child of my own to take care of I cannot and will not entertain seriously dating a man that is struggling financially.

It does not make sense, especially in this day and age. Sex, I would entertain if I was sexually attracted to him, but anything other than that is off the table, permanently. However, sexual relationships get old quickly. At least for me.

I’m sure 100% of women, if asked, would say that they want a man with money and rightfully so. Not just any man with money. Of course he has to have things like integrity, drive, personality, good looks and even a nice ass, but financial security is a must when looking for a serious long term relationship.

Why? Because things cost. It costs to live and enjoy life. Bills have to be paid. A legacy has to be built and that cannot be done when one or both persons is poor. Besides, according to traditional values (which I don’t usually give a shit about), the man is supposed to be the head of the household, the breadwinner.

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For the record, not all woman who want a man with money are gold diggers. Smart people know the difference.

Now, you may be saying – “A man doesn’t want a broke woman either.” You may be right. That’s fair. Though I’m sure that most well to do men are more than okay with their woman making less than them. It’s an ego thing. A man thing. I’m OK with that.

Don’t get me wrong, if the woman is poor, lazy, has no drive and no plans on how to become financially stable, there is a problem. However, if it’s a woman like me or a woman who is also financially stable I’m sure a man can work with that.

I have a college education, ambition, goals, plans and I own a business, but it is not a successful business, in my eyes. Success for me would be generating a stable income for myself and my child where I would never have to skip paying my Consumers bill (or any bill for that matter) and I would not be driving around in a raggedy ass ’97 Escort for going on two years now without car insurance and tags. It’s a damn shame.

If I met a man I really liked who just happened to be a well off business man or a well off garbage man, take your pick, we could build a legacy together. Meaning he could invest in my business or perhaps we could build an entirely new business together. We could pool our talents and help each other.

As I type this I am thinking that it would be great to have an angel investor, male or female, but those are harder to come by than a viable significant other these days.

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Top Story: Why I’ve Slept With White Men And Will Do It Again

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Photo by Davio Curo – No, I didn’t sleep with this White guy, but I have thought about it.

I bet you think I’m about to get deep, but you’re wrong. Why does anyone decide to have sex with a person? They’re attracted to them. It’s as simple as that. I don’t discriminate. I like men. Their color, race, or heritage is not important. Does that surprise you?

It has nothing to do with self hatred, but I will admit that it was a curiosity. I’ve learned that men are men Black, White or otherwise. I used to believe that Black people who dated outside their race were indeed self haters, but that’s a blanket statement that is simply not true.

Reasons Why I Would Hire A Male Escort

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Professional Male Escort, Ash Armand, from the Showtimes series, Gigolos.

Have you ever watched Gigolos, the Showtime series about male escorts in Las Vegas? It’s very entertaining and comical. Why? Because in my opinion, none of the men are as smooth or desirable as they think they are. They also have weak stroke game in the bed although the female clients on the show swear it’s one of the best sexual experiences they’ve ever had.

Most of the women who hire male escorts do it for the same reasons as men who hire female escorts; they are busy professionals that don’t have time for relationships or haven’t had luck with relationships and need a lil’ sexual healing. However, with rates like $800 for two hours and $3,000 for an overnight rendezvous, I won’t be hiring a male escort anytime soon.

I’m a busy woman, but I do have time for a relationship and I very much would like to be in a relationship, but having been single for more than ten years and not having had sex in over a year, I am a great candidate to hire a male escort. I have sexual needs that aren’t currently being met!

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My Celebrity Crush – Wentworth Miller. Yes, I know he’s gay!

The great thing about escorts is that you get exactly what you pay for. You don’t have to deal with diseases, drama or heartbreak. You can just have fun and use him any way you see fit because he has to do whatever you pay him to do; within reason of course. Gigolos is looking for women to submit sexy ideas for the new season and I was seriously considering applying to be on the show, but who am I kidding? I can only enjoy sex with someone that I have strong feelings for or someone that looks like Wentworth Miller!

Would you hire an escort? What would you do with him?

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Ask Dangerous Lee: I really like this boy and he’s 16 and I’m only 12 and a half

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Name: Kaylean
Question: I really like this boy and hes 16 and I’m only 12 and a half. I have known this boy for 5 years and I never really seen him as a boyfriend until now. I asked him if he liked me and he said yes, but he wants to wait until we’re older, but I really don’t want to wait. What do I do?!
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What’s the rush? Wait! It’s best. You’re 12, a child. Enjoy his company, learn more about yourself and grow up. The fact that he as a 16 year old is telling you that he wants to wait is a blessing and it also means he’s respecting you and himself. You have all your life to “be with” a boy/man. Also, talk to your mom about this, sweetie. She really is the person that you should go to for help and advice on things like this. If not your mom some other adult female you trust.

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Good Men Are Not Like Busses

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Piggybacking off the above image; when those three or four come along they aren’t worth the ride. I haven’t been in a serious relationship in over ten years and I have yet to meet a man that would make me want to be in a relationship in those ten years. When I have met a man that I thought was worth my time he made lying and game playing a priority. At this stage of my life I don’t feel that I need a man to be validated or happy, however I would like to have a male companion that I can spend some quality time with as well as have great sex; something else that I have not had in ages. I really hope this changes in 2013.

Update: Nothing changed in 2013 :/

Ask Dangerous Lee: Should Christians (sanctified people) date?

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Q: Should Christians (sanctified people) date?

Tamara, Chicago

A: I don’t know what in the world would make you ask ME this question, but of course Christians should date and then of course later marry! How else are you going to create other little Christians? Eve was the only immaculate conception that I can ever recall hearing about.

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Ask Dangerous Lee: What are the 8 mistakes not to make on your online dating profile?

Q: What are the 8 mistakes not to make on your online dating profile?

Chad Stone, New Mexico

A: There are approximately 8 mistakes? You asked a question that implies you already know the answer, so I won’t waste my talents answering. However, answer me this; what is the #1 mistake you’ll regret making with Dangerous Lee?

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The Racy Files: Mr. Locario

Name:

Mr. Locario

Explain what makes you racy:

I’m a dating and life coach who likes to really keep it real and help people get what they desire. I know a lot of guys are really out here looking for sex so I wrote a book to help them out called “How to Have Sex with 2 Women a Day”

Why is being racy so much fun?

It’s so much fun because I’m just being myself and sometimes that pisses people off. I kind of get a kick out of people being mad at me for doing my own thing.

Any advice to prudes or sticks in the mud?

You only get 24 hours a day, 7 days a week and 365 days a year. Life is short so lighten up and have some fun.

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Dating and Relationship Expert, Lucia, Gives Dangerous Lee Advice!

Dating and Relationship Expert, Lucia.

Dangerous Lee: What does it mean when an ex who you haven’t spoken to in 10 years, who you were once in love with, who is now living in another state, contacts you under the guise of being concerned for you because your favorite celebrity died? Some important factors are that he found your number (work number) by researching you on the internet, he doesn’t admit to any feelings, and says that he contacted you because he heard that you were looking for him (you were looking years ago). What’s up with this guy?

Lucia:  When a former lover makes contact out of the blue, no matter what “excuse” they may use, there are usually two main reasons.  Either they want to see how your life is today, to make sure they didn’t miss out on anything by not being with you, or they want to re-connect either for sex or to try dating again.  Of course they’re not going to admit to any feelings – if there are any – they don’t want to come across as “sappy”. His actions will let you know what his intentions are.  If he stays in contact and wants to see you, he may be trying to re-kindle the relationship.  If he doesn’t, then he just wanted to see what you were up to.  Only time will tell, so just sit back and wait!  The truth will eventually come out.      

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Lucia is a dating/relationship expert, author of “Lucia’s Lessons of Love”, host of “The Art of Love” on L.A. Talk Radio, a syndicated columnist and keynote speaker. She has over 100 major national and international TV and radio credits including Dr. Phil, The Tyra Banks Show, E! Entertainment, 60 Minutes Australia, The CBS Early Show, ABC 7 News, Good Day L.A and the KTLA News. Lucia has been interviewed by numerous publications including Details, Business Week, Allure, Elle and media from France, Germany, Japan, the UK, Australia and Chile.

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