#FridayReads: How To Move In With Your Boyfriend (And Not Break Up With Him)

#FridayReads: How To Move In With Your Boyfriend (And Not Break Up With Him)

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Author Tiffany Current says…

Deciding to move in with your boyfriend is easy.  Actually doing it is the hard part.  I learned this firsthand when I moved in with my then boyfriend (now husband).  In the beginning, it was all smiles and steamy glances.  But after a few weeks, I wanted to burn his clothes, throw his PlayStation out the window, and give his cat away to any willing stranger. 

After digging in my heels, I was able to survive my live-in relationship.  And with the lessons I learned, I wrote How to Move in with Your Boyfriend (and Not Break Up with Him).  This humorous, step-by-step guide helps you stay smart and happy on the road to live-in bliss.  It answers important questions like:

  • How do you split the bills, chores, and control of the remote?
  • What if you can’t stand your boyfriend’s pet (or worse, his friends)?
  • How do you deal with each others bad habits?
  • Is it possible to tame your designing diva (since he has to live there too)?
  • What steps should you take when your sex life turns from spicy to icy?

How to Move in with Your Boyfriend (and Not Break Up with Him) is packed full of quizzes, games, personal stories, mock conversations, and fun activities to make sure your live-in relationship is on the right track.  With this book by your side, you’ll be able to steer through the harsh (and humorous) realities of cohabitation.

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A Woman’s Survival Guide To A Bad Breakup: Getting Rid Of The Things Your Ex Left Behind

A Woman’s Survival Guide To A Bad Breakup: Getting Rid Of The Things Your Ex Left Behind

Breakups are nasty and painful enough without the added stress of fighting over your mutual possessions. Even if you and your ex-boyfriend weren’t living together, you might still encounter problems when it comes to their possessions. There are even some women who, in an attempt to start with a clean slate, got rid of everything from their ex-boyfriend’s gifts to his clothes.

Dr. Cheryl Fraser, a psychologist, believes that it is important to get rid of your ex’s stuff because holding on to it means you will still cling onto the past. This prevents you from moving on. By getting rid of the things from the past, you create a space for your present life without desperately holding on to what used to be. But before you start throwing his stuff out, you need to determine whether you actually have the right to throw them away. If your ex-boyfriend’s property is left in your possession, does it mean it’s yours?

Is It Legal To Throw Out Your Ex’s Possessions?

Abandoned property is an item in which the owner has given up all ownership rights. If your ex-boyfriend has abandoned his possessions by living it in your care, you can throw it away, donate it, store it, or sell it. The complicated part is actually knowing whether he officially abandoned his belongings.

As a tip, you need to cover all your bases. For instance, if he leaves some of his clothes in your property, you need to handle it reasonably and if possible, document everything. Despite the fact that you don’t want to talk to him again, you need to send some notice, by sending a text or an email reminding him to get his stuff. You also need to let him know what you are planning to do if he fails to contact you by the deadline. Keep in mind through that this only applies to small, insignificant items.

This means that if he left his car in your garage, it will be a whole lot different. Ownership of a car is by title; thus, even if he left it in your possession, you still don’t have any rights to it. The best thing you can do is notify the authorities since they can authorize the towing of the vehicle. To that end, before you let your emotions take over, you must first determine whether you have the right to throw away his stuff. The worst possible scenario is that you might get sued or get accused of theft. Keep this in mind when deciding the best course of action.

How To Get Rid Of His Stuff

  1. Let your ex-boyfriend know what you plan to do. You need to let him know that you want him to remove his things from your property. In addition, you also need to remind him of what you intend to do with his things if he fails to collect them.
  2. Give him time to pack. Even if he has been a complete jerk, you still need to give him enough time to sort through his things and pack them all up.
  3. If it is still too painful to see him in person again, you can always leave a pile of his things so that he can pick it up when he can. Provide your ex-boyfriend information regarding when and where he can collect his things.
  4. If your ex-boyfriend refuses to consider your request, you can consult your lawyer. You need to learn what is practical as far as giving notice and a deadline. Make sure that your ex-boyfriend receives your notice that you will be throwing away his stuff if he doesn’t pick it up.
  5. Store his stuff in another location. While you are waiting for your ex-boyfriend to respond to your request or if it is still too painful to throw away his gifts and your mutual possessions, you can always consider storing the items in another location. In doing so, you can remove the items off your property without really throwing or giving them away.

Asking your ex-boyfriend to pack his things and throwing away the things he failed to collect may seem vindictive and dramatic; however, if it helps you with moving on, do what you must. To that end, get durable storage boxes or trash bags and purge the presence of your ex-boyfriend from your house with the tips listed above.


The author, Kris Lim, is a blogger who writes about women’s issues. In this article, she offers a women’s guide to getting rid of their ex’s stuff. She also advises her readers to first learn more about what they can and cannot throw away to avoid legal problems.


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Men Respond to Praise

Men love it when women praise them, even if it’s something trivial; they really are no different from women and works wonders for their confidence. Women should praise their man before even getting into the bedroom; say something on the lines of how good they luck and how horny you get when you think about them naked. Men are too very conscious about their penis size, their guts and other attributes. So just remember to try making them feel better about themselves – they will feel like they can take on the world.

Most Men Fear Intimacy with their Partner

Intimacy terrifies men after they have had sex, as they then realize just how much desperate they are for a woman’s touch and feel, which does frighten them as it isn’t macho and don’t like to admit to themselves that they are in need of a woman’s touch. However, where does that leave women and what can she do to help her man accept her love and affection after sex? After all women crave their man to be intimate with them after sex – it’s just the way women are and is more important than the sex part to many due to the caring that the man shows the woman.

So what you can do as a woman is to understand that your guy maybe shocked because he realizes he needs to have you near him and wants it badly. Therefore, what you can do is to hold back a little after sex and he may just get used to needing you to be affectionate with him after intimate encounters. If not, talk to him, but don’t pressure him.

Men Appreciate Sex for Sex’s Sake

Sometimes women need to understand that men just want raw sex and that women should be a little more open to do and allow this to happen (I don’t mean every time), just sometimes. Men and women should come to compromises when it comes to having sex, as there maybe certain things that the other would or wouldn’t prefer, but both parties must try.

Men Watching Pornography

A spouse using pornography is one of the main reasons why couples seeking counseling. However, women need to realize that pornography is just another way of watching a fantasy without acting it out. After all many women would simply not do what the guy wants, unless it’s a special occasion like his birthday.

Also women brand men as sex addicts, but this just isn’t the case, as reports suggest that Sex addicts only represent 4% of the entire population, which makes it sound even more less likely that your man is obsessed with sex. The other reason for men watching porn is that they know that women are not and shouldn’t be everything to a man sexually and if you think about it, women fantasize about other men, which is in a way the same, just not as disgusting in a woman’s eyes. If your very lucky as a man, your woman will too like watching porn and therefore you can both watch it together and even talk about it and get excited together.

If you can’t watch pornography with your man, why not just talk about it and ask him what he enjoys about watching porn and so forth; this helps take away any anxieties about your man watching pornography and may even make you a closer couple.

Talking Dirty to Him

Women can find it difficult to talk dirty to their man because they are not used to it, they think it’s corny and they’re afraid that they will be laughed at or lack of response. However, talking dirty in bed to a man is one of the best ways to get him excited and make him feel better about himself; a lot of men feel inadequate in their man-hood department.

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