Men Respond to Praise
Men love it when women praise them, even if it’s something trivial; they really are no different from women and works wonders for their confidence. Women should praise their man before even getting into the bedroom; say something on the lines of how good they luck and how horny you get when you think about them naked. Men are too very conscious about their penis size, their guts and other attributes. So just remember to try making them feel better about themselves – they will feel like they can take on the world.
Most Men Fear Intimacy with their Partner
Intimacy terrifies men after they have had sex, as they then realize just how much desperate they are for a woman’s touch and feel, which does frighten them as it isn’t macho and don’t like to admit to themselves that they are in need of a woman’s touch. However, where does that leave women and what can she do to help her man accept her love and affection after sex? After all women crave their man to be intimate with them after sex – it’s just the way women are and is more important than the sex part to many due to the caring that the man shows the woman.
So what you can do as a woman is to understand that your guy maybe shocked because he realizes he needs to have you near him and wants it badly. Therefore, what you can do is to hold back a little after sex and he may just get used to needing you to be affectionate with him after intimate encounters. If not, talk to him, but don’t pressure him.
Men Appreciate Sex for Sex’s Sake
Sometimes women need to understand that men just want raw sex and that women should be a little more open to do and allow this to happen (I don’t mean every time), just sometimes. Men and women should come to compromises when it comes to having sex, as there maybe certain things that the other would or wouldn’t prefer, but both parties must try.
Men Watching Pornography
A spouse using pornography is one of the main reasons why couples seeking counseling. However, women need to realize that pornography is just another way of watching a fantasy without acting it out. After all many women would simply not do what the guy wants, unless it’s a special occasion like his birthday.
Also women brand men as sex addicts, but this just isn’t the case, as reports suggest that Sex addicts only represent 4% of the entire population, which makes it sound even more less likely that your man is obsessed with sex. The other reason for men watching porn is that they know that women are not and shouldn’t be everything to a man sexually and if you think about it, women fantasize about other men, which is in a way the same, just not as disgusting in a woman’s eyes. If your very lucky as a man, your woman will too like watching porn and therefore you can both watch it together and even talk about it and get excited together.
If you can’t watch pornography with your man, why not just talk about it and ask him what he enjoys about watching porn and so forth; this helps take away any anxieties about your man watching pornography and may even make you a closer couple.
Talking Dirty to Him
Women can find it difficult to talk dirty to their man because they are not used to it, they think it’s corny and they’re afraid that they will be laughed at or lack of response. However, talking dirty in bed to a man is one of the best ways to get him excited and make him feel better about himself; a lot of men feel inadequate in their man-hood department.
Sam is a sex industry expert and has good knowledge of sex toys for men and women, but most of all often gives professional advice to couples.