Intimacy (into-me-see) is the right way to look at how women view this topic. Many women long for people in their lives that can see what is really going on with them.
What does it mean to be intimate? It means to be close. To look at someone and see the real person. For a woman it removes the superficiality and the barriers that separate her from everyone else. Some equate being known intimately as standing before someone with nothing to hide.
Let me offer some points that outline what intimacy means to a woman;
1) It means “you can see the real me”- women who open up and let you see the best in themselves. They love being transparent because it means they can just be themselves. And they want to be surrounded by people who can look at them and see who they really are.
2) It means “we are connected”- today’s woman has so much pressure to feel connected to the idea created by the media when they are selling beer and cars; a slim beautiful woman who belongs on the cover on a magazine. Yet many women don’t fit this concept because not all women have the figure or the face to compete. This makes them feel unconnected to the concept of beautiful women portrayed in the public. When a woman knows that she has intimacy with someone else she feels connected and accepted.
3) it means “you can love me and I will love you back”- Intimacy opens the door to being loved with her whole heart being involved. I believe that loving a woman and having her love you back is one of the best feelings a person can have in this lifetime. To find a woman who will not only give you her heart but everything she has to offer is not to be compared with anything else. It is great to find women who are loved and feel loved, free to express themselves without reservation.
4) It means ‘sex is going to be awesome”- when a man connects with a woman on an intimate level that transcends just the touch and the act of sex. A woman who feels intimacy towards a man will give him her heart, her soul and her body. This is clearly the best sex any couple could ever hope to experience.
Let’s hope that all women can have sincere intimacy in their lives. The world will be a better place because of it.