If you’re anything like most men, the idea of getting dumped by your girlfriend is perhaps one of the most horrible experiences a guy can go through in a romantic relationship.
Sure you may think that your current romance with your girlfriend may be running smoothly but she can easily leave you all of a sudden if you’re not very careful. Make sure you check out the rest of this article to find out the mistakes that could get you dumped by your girlfriend the least you expect.
Taking hygiene for granted.
It doesn’t mean that you already have the woman of your dreams as your girlfriend that you just forget about looking and smelling good for her at some point. Apart from giving her the notion that you’re not taking care of yourself like you should, chances are she won’t be hanging around much with you if you simply smell and look bad. Make it a point to always prep up meticulously when you are with her and you’re pretty much all set.
Being too possessive.
A lot of guys mistakenly believe that because they are in a romantic relationship with a woman, she should be only available exclusively for him when it comes to going to places or simply hanging around. This mindset only gives your girlfriend the notion that you are already getting too obsessed with her and she might not like being with a relationship with you anymore.
Giving your girlfriend space from time to time is key if you don’t want to find yourself getting dumped sooner or later. Same thing also applies if you’re getting jealous over the shallowest of reasons.
Hitting on other women nonchalantly.
While it’s normal to find yourself getting a bit flirty with other women once or twice during parties and similar social gatherings, doing it carelessly can lead your romantic relationship with your girlfriend to disaster…especially if you can’t help doing it in front of her.
You’ll only make her feel that she’s not as attractive to you as before and that already makes her want to dump you eventually. Always remember to make her feel like the most beautiful woman in the world each and every day and you’re definitely good to go.
Doing the same things over and over again.
Being predictable is one of the biggest reasons why some men suddenly find themselves getting dumped by their girlfriends out of the blue. Unlike what most guys believe, excitement plays a significant role in keeping her interested being in a relationship with you. Besides constantly thinking of new ways to keep the fire going in your romance, adding fresh elements into your relationship like new places to go on dates and the like is sure to make her fall for you even more.
Making her feel neglected.
It really doesn’t matter how long you have been in a romantic relationship with your girlfriend. Whether it’s a couple of weeks or a few years, she will end up dumping you the moment she feels that you are already neglecting her. Always make it a point to call your girlfriend and ask her how she’s doing. Surprise her with flowers and chocolates. Send her sweet nothings all day. As long as she feels that you’re always there for her, your odds of getting dumped are simply non-existent.
Claire is writing on behalf of Couplesadvice.com, a blog on dating, marriage and dating.