Do You Really Know Who Your Friends Are?


Many of us modern folks maintain friendships that were sparked via social media, through networking at various events, or some other equally superficial means of meeting someone. Aside from our brother-like buddies whom we’ve known since first grade, few of us can claim to have a soul connection with everyone in our social circle. But how important is it to know who your friends really are?

Double Lives—Not Just in the Movies

We all have that one friend who “mysteriously” disappears for weeks, has other friends that you’ve never met, and apparently aren’t allowed to meet, and maintains a weird sleeping schedule. There is likely to be one of two things going on here: 1) Your friend is a top secret government spy, and may be working for the CIA. You should stay on this person’s good side. But the more likely scenarios is option 2) Your friend has a serious drug problem, and you should organize an intervention and hide your valuables when that person comes over.

How Can You Find Out?

So, how can you finally satisfy your curiosity and get the real dirt on your buddies? Well you can always bite the bullet and ask them several awkward questions that will probably ruin your friendship, or you can just search their arrest records by getting a background check. A background check will tell you everything you need to know about someone without having to snoop through their stuff, or ask them uncomfortable questions.

Find out if any of your friends have ever been:

  • Arrested
  • Convicted of a crime
  • Charged with drug possession
  • Married
  • Divorced
  • Licensed by the DEA or FAA
  • Received a speeding ticket In jail for a DUI

You can also find out if your friend lives in a neighborhood filled with sex offenders, or other dangerous criminals.

Does It Matter?

Some people might be thinking that it sounds awfully noisy to go around investigating your friends like that. After all, what about privacy?

Well, the truth is, it does matter. Knowing the full background of a person can help you decide whether or not you want to put yourself in certain situations with them. For example, would you really want to make travel plans with someone who has a history of drunk and disorderly conduct? Would you let someone borrow your car if you knew they had previously been arrested for grand theft auto? Knowing the facts can help you decide whether or not you’re comfortable letting your buddy crash at your pad or borrow your laptop.

If you knew the truth, you might just call them a cab next time. Protect yourself, and your stuff. It may sound cynical, but friends will rip you off more often than you would think!

Author Byline: Kristen Bright is an SEO copywriter for Instant Checkmate, an Internet start up company which provides criminal background checks to individuals. 

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