We live in a world where it’s a big deal to be in a relationship. No matter how much someone may say it does not matter to them, chances are that it probably does and let’s face it. Who likes to be single? Everyone likes to feel like they have someone to love but many people find it difficult to express their feelings face to face with a person. Many people fear rejection on the spot. For this reason, it may just be easier to write a love letter. Writing a love letter is actually very easy and it is something that anyone can do. Here’s a few thoughts.
How to Start
If you are someone who finds yourself stuttering and searching for the right words to say when you are standing face to face with someone you have feelings for, it may be for a number of reasons. Maybe you are unsure if this person feels the same way that you do or maybe you are just shy. Perhaps you are someone who fears rejection. Whatever the case may be, it may be easier for you to put your feelings into words in a letter. When you start out with writing your letter to the one you love, you could start out with an opening like, “dear whoever’, replacing whoever with your lover’s name. You could also use, “whoever, my love”. Be creative! You can then start out by letting this person know that you have feelings for them. This is a great place for you to start if they do not know you like them. It is important for you to tell them what they mean to you and how they make you feel. You will also want to comment on some memorable times that you have had together that may have caused you to develop feelings for them.
When you are writing your love letter, be sure that you tell the person how you really feel. Do not beat around the bush. Make sure that everything is spelled correctly and you use the proper grammar. Also, if you want the letter to be a bit more special and personal, you could hand write the letter on some nice stationary. Cursive writing will make it look a bit more romantic. This is also nice, because your lover will have something to touch and keep as a memory.
Writing a love letter can be a really important thing and is many times, a great way for you to begin a relationship. It is also a lot easier than having to stand face to face with someone you have feelings for and have to confess your love. Writing a love letter is personal and deep, but it is not something that is hard to do. Be sure to take these tips into consideration when you are writing your letter and in no time at all, you will have the one you love.
Author Byline: Jenni P. is a writer for AspiringNurse.com. If you want to woo your lover, woo them with a bigger paycheck, check out the career of a nurse today.