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How to Tell If You Are in An Abusive Relationship

Domestic abuse encompasses many forms of abusive relationships. This could pertain to spousal or partner abuse, as well as child abuse. If you are in a relationship with a person, it’s important to protect yourself and your rights. You have every right to feel loved and protected, and anyone who undermines your safety and security could be guilty of domestic abuse.

Why does a person abuse another?

Abuse could be physical or psychological, and it could also involve sexual abuse and invasion of privacy. For an abuser, it’s all about power and control. He wants to assert his power over another being, and he does many things in order to keep himself in a position of power. He wants to control the behavior or choices of his spouse, partner or even his child. Even the way the other person dresses could be controlled by the dominant one.

Physical Signs of Abuse

These are physical manifestations that show that abuse has taken place. A victim could get bruises, welts, cuts, or burns. Others could get bite marks or even cigarette burns. Some are minor injuries, while others who have been gravely brutalized suffer very serious wounds that need emergency medical care. Such injuries are most likely from several violent actions. A victim could get injured when he is slapped, punched, kicked, choked or hit by something hard, like a bat or a stick. There are also some victims who display cuts or bruises on wrists or ankles which imply that they’ve been bound or chained.

Psychological Signs of Abuse

Psychological signs also include emotional or mental symptoms of abuse. Terrorizing or threatening, rejecting, humiliating, and coercing are a few clues of psychological abuse. Terrorizing involves making threats to another, and such threats could suggest physical or bodily harm to a victim or a victim’s loved ones. Rejecting someone is also a form of abuse. When a person marries another, he promises to love and cherish that person. By rejecting that person, he devalues her worth as an individual, which is detrimental to mental health. This goes the same for humiliating someone. A person in power wants to assert his authority over another by making that person feel small or insignificant. Hence, he humiliates her not just when they are alone, but he also has no qualms about ridiculing his partner in public or in front of friends and family. As for coercion, this is about forcing another to do something that she does not want to do. When a victim refuses to do the bidding of the abuser, she will most likely be punished or harmed.

There are victims of abuse that are able to get out of an abusive relationship. Because the victim is able to break away from the relationship, the abuser then feels that he lost his power and seeks to have it back. Hence, it’s also common for abusers to stalk their ex-partners. Stalking could be dangerous because a tense situation could build up and things could soon get violent. So, stalking should be taken seriously and should be reported to the proper authorities.

Author Byline: Claire Scott writes about personal injury and criminal law issues. She also blogs for criminal lawyers like Timothy L. Healy. He provides assistance to victims of domestic abuse.

 

 

About Leigh "Dangerous Lee" Langston

Author. Artist. Blogger. Single Mom. Black Woman. Stoner. Silly. Sexy. Loner. Cynic. Realist. These are some of the words I use to describe who I am. The Dangerous Lee Network features my commentary and guest content on viral topics and worldwide news as well as my short stories, poems, opinion essays and blogs that highlight events in my personal life.
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