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Ask Dangerous Lee: My girlfriend cheated on me with my best friend

Q: My girlfriend cheated on me with my best friend. She says she doesn’t know why she did it and she has no feelings for him. Yet all of a sudden she is really mad with me and doesn’t want to talk to me over something stupid. We live two days drive apart and she is refusing to see me. Right from the start we always promised if we were going to break up we would see each other to say goodbye. She hasn’t said she doesn’t want to be with me, but I am so confused. What can you say to a girl that gets mad at you no matter what to make her see you? I love her son like my own. My emotions are invested in this relationship and in my family. Please give me some advice. I need there to be a way that I can at least tell her how I feel to her face or should I just take a deep breath and let go because its already over?


A: You need to get rid of your girlfriend and your best friend because neither of them have loyalty to you. Whatever the “something stupid” is that has resulted in her not talking to you is just her dealing with her own guilt. You should be refusing to see her! Get some backbone or balls (take your pick) and let her go, for good. The two days drive is not worth it and gas is too damn high! You should also evaluate how you are mentally dealing with this situation and ask yourself what attracted you to her in the first place. You are essentially begging someone that cheated on YOU to communicate. That’s backwards! Stop letting people walk all over you, honey. You deserve better.

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About Leigh Langston

I am the artist behind the Dangerous Lee Network. I create social media marketing campaigns for artists and creative business owners. In 2013, The Dangerous Lee Network ranked in the top 11,000 websites in the U.S. according to Alexa. That same year the network received 3 million views. Content from the network has been featured on The TODAY Show with Kathie Lee & Hoda, has been nominated for four Black Weblog Awards and selected as a Top Fashion Blog to follow in 2013 and 2014. I am also the author of the Amazon best selling safe sex erotica anthology, "Keep Your Panties Up and Your Skirt Down" and an eBook on the affects of colorism, The Half Series: When Black People Look White.

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