How to Talk Dirty to Men
Author: Caroline Therancy
Dirty talk is a type of pillow talk. You use vivid words to augment sexual enjoyment before and during the lovemaking.
Talking dirty to men can be anything from giving him insults, vivid images using slang words, to whispering curse expressions to your guy’s ear.
If you feel timid about it, don’t be; only the two of you who will be aware of it.
The more you’ll let go, the better you will be. Your couple’s life should be hot and wild. It’s a form of “sense of adventure” that you are giving to your guy.
You might say that you are a “good girl” and you don’t do those things. Well here is my take on this; if you have preferences in bed, and your spouse is giving enough to fulfill them, maybe I can do my part.
Some guys find it makes them hornier. You can harvest the rewards from this lover’s game. It makes you feel sexier because you are seeing your man enjoy himself due to your influence. You are providing your guy more excitement.
Lovemaking is at its best when you let go; abandon yourself to the other person is a joyful experience.
Some women use this not only in the bedroom, but in their husband’s e-mail or work’s voice mail.
Your guy gets excited to get home and gives you a nice “reward”.
What is the top thing to say when talking dirty to men?
1. Tell him what you’re wearing under your clothing.
2. Put on sexy lingerie and give him a tiny peek when he first sees you. It’ll drive him mad to want to see more of your outfit all night…until you allow him to see more.
3. Leave him a voice message when he is away
4. at a gathering
5. at your parent’s house when you go by him
6. right before parting for work
7. Email him some sassy notes
8. Fax it to him
9. Throw hot little texts on his cell phone while is at a sports game with his buddies
It will heat up if you are talking dirty to men at unusual places like:
1. Your parent’s house
2. at the food store
3. at church?…ok…ok…after church
When is the most excellent timing for this during lovemaking?
From the mid to the end.
You start by telling a physical move that he has made to you and that you had enjoyed. Don’t worry about feeling embarrassed; he will be more paying attention in the images that you are creating in his imagination.
Are you concerned that you won’t be excellent at this?
Guys are not hard to light up. It doesn’t take a great deal for them to get turned on.
If you feel uncomfortable, get some help with a glass or two of wine… Just to break the ice. But please! Don’t develop a drinking problem!
Having trouble “getting it up”? Talking dirty to men might be able to help.
Use this once in a while; they can get too enthusiastic to this. in addition, some men can be a bit turned off or uncomfortable with you unexpectedly starting to talk dirty to them.
You can propose to him to do the alike and it will balance the dynamics.
You can get swear words at the Urban dictionary. It is a slang dictionary. You’ll be able to get different variations of a slang word.
For instance, let’s find a variation of breast; there is boobie, nipples, boobs, funbags, just to show a few. Use it to your imagination. Have fun!
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