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Ask Dangerous Lee: Why are women suddenly falling into this realm of “Male Identity”?

Q: Why is it that women are suddenly falling into this realm of “Male Identity”? I appreciate the “aggressive” and “butch” personas, but why do so many 35+ women need to identify with their so-called “male” side? Help a sista understand!

The Lesbian Goddess, NY, NY

A: Ah, this is an interesting question to be asked by The Lesbian Goddess. I believe that it’s not just women 35+; I think this is the way that women of today have to be. I consider myself aggressive and very in touch with my male side, but I am also very feminine and sexy as hell if I may say so myself. I’ll also go as far to say that the qualities you’ve mentioned can no longer be used to only describe men. Look at the behavior of men today, many have what are considered to be feminine qualities. If men wanna act like “bitches” then the women have to wear the pants.

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About Leigh Langston

I am the woman behind the Dangerous Lee Network and along with helping starving artists get fed I have published some of the best in DIY, How To and Top List content in 50+ categories as well as my short stories, poems, opinion essays and personal blogs. I am also the author of the safe sex erotica anthology, "Keep Your Panties Up and Your Skirt Down" and an eBook on the affects of colorism, The Half Series: When Black People Look White.


One thought on “Ask Dangerous Lee: Why are women suddenly falling into this realm of “Male Identity”?

  1. A woman can feel herself very male ’cause she likes this lifestyle, or ’cause she needs to be strong, when she is in danger. I think so. Everyone can be what he/she feel to be! :lol: a big kiss


    Posted by smallstar | 06/04/2008, 5:00 AM

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